Keith Wheeler-a Cross and a Heart

Keith Wheeler posted a joyous New Year message, but faced unexpected health challenges in January 2024. Diagnosed with severe heart blockages, he bravely confronted surgery with unwavering faith, surrounded by love and prayers. Just days after the procedure, Keith was already inspiring others with his recovery and gratitude for life’s blessings.

Happy New Year! Happy 2024!

We pray that your new year will be overflowing with the beauty and majesty of the glory of Jesus, and the nearness and intimacy of His presence!

God bless you!

Keith Wheeler, Facebook post January 2, 2024

But the rest of January didn’t quite turn out the way Keith and his fairytale princess wife Nicole planned. In some ways, it turned out much better.

I have been writing this blog for nine years and my favorite posts are the ones I wrote about Keith Wheeler, starting with this one.

Keith Wheeler- a cross and a collarbone

Keith walks around doing what he simply calls “serving God, loving people.” He started in Tulsa, Oklahoma on Good Friday 1985 and thought it was going to be a one-time event. But he felt God wanted him to continue carrying the cross around the surrounding towns, then the rest of Oklahoma, and on into surrounding states. And then he just kept walking- and carrying the cross.

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After he experienced a bout with COVID-19, I wrote another article based on an interview we did by phone. It’s hard to interview Keith because he doesn’t like talking about himself. His favorite subject is Jesus. What else would you expect from a man who has literally walked around the world carrying a 12-foot-long cross?

Keith Wheeler-a Cross and COVID

No, I wasn’t mad at God, I know that bad things happen to everyone. Jesus said that whoever wants to save their life should lose it, (Luke 9:24) so I know that either way I would be with Him. Jesus is my hope, my confidence, and peace, in all my life, including COVID.

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I finally met Keith in person when he spoke at a church near my home. I don’t know which I enjoyed most- shaking hands with him or touching the massive cross that has been all over the world blessing everyone who sees or touches it.

Keith Wheeler holding his cross with Dr. Aletha
photo by Raymond Oglesby

A Heart and a Hospital

So I was alarmed when my husband told me he saw a Facebook post saying Keith was in a hospital. I had to check it out myself and was even more concerned.

Keith’s symptoms suggested a heart problem; tests were being done to see if he needed surgery.

Here’s what he wrote on January 27 from his hospital room

Dear family and friends! Well… unfortunately, it seems like I’m not going to be able to go to Africa at this time. It looks like I’m going to need to go in for my 28,000 mile “radiator flush”!

For the past two weeks, I have been having some health challenges. I have written them off, or marked them up as wear and tear from the journey. I was sent to the emergency room two weeks ago while I was speaking in New York.

Things seemed like they were improving, but everything took a sharp turn for the worse a few nights ago. I’m in the heart hospital.


KW, Facebook January 27, 2024

And Keith was right. He isn’t going to Africa anytime soon. Again, here’s the story in Keith’s words.

Unfortunately, we didn’t get the news we had hoped for. They performed a heart cath on me and found 100% blockage in my “widowmaker” and 80% in another. They weren’t able to put in a stent. So, I have to have open heart surgery (double bypass) this week….

KW, Facebook, January 30, 2024


If you think Keith was feeling sorry for himself, or was mad at God, or thought God was mad at him-well, you don’t know Keith.

I’ve always felt that perspective is such a gift! It seems to always put everything into perspective! Truly, things can always be better… But they can always be so much worse!

In the big picture, I’m doing great! I’m so much healthier than many other people in our world! I’m probably much healthier than most of the other people in this hospital! I’m probably much healthier than many people on my floor here in the hospital!

Also, I have my fairytale princess by my side … so, so many people have no one, and are so very lonely!

And most of all, I have Jesus! I have hope! I have peace! I have joy! He is loving. He is good. He is kind. And, He is with me always! My days, my breaths, my heartbeats are in His hands! My life is in His hands! He’s so very worthy!

KW, Facebook, January 30, 2024

A New Cross and Total Peace

Keith and Nicole, his fairy tale princess


As Keith was waiting to go into surgery, he wrote these words

I’m at total peace! If I close my eyes today and open them and see Jesus, I win! If I close my eyes today and open them and see my fairytale princess, I win! It’s a win-win!

My prayer is that when they open me up, they will either wonder why they had to operate because I’m totally healed, or when they open my heart that they will see Jesus smiling back at them!🕊❤️‍🔥‼️

KW, Facebook February 1, 2024

New Heart Day

The next day, we were relieved to read an update, this time from Nicole, his fairy tale princess wife (that’s what he calls her.)

My Prince is recovering and he just took his very first lap around the unit. (Many more laps to come). 😀

He’s sitting up, greeting everyone that comes into the room with a smile, and telling them about Jesus. Thank you so much for walking with us on this journey!! So appreciate your outpouring of love and prayers.

#February1NewHeartDay❤️


Nicole, Facebook February 2, 2024
Keith walking in the hospital hall with a tiny cross someone gave him.

Keith’s “new” Heart

About a week later Keith left the hospital, returning home where he and Nicole took a walk in their neighborhood. Back to posting online himself, Keith revealed that before his surgery, he had “flatlined” and had to be resuscitated, and promised to write more about his journey later.

I’ll write more on the journey in the days to come. Today, I just want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart! With God’s help, I’m home and doing well.

Keith Wheeler

Keith Wheeler-Facebook

Please visit Keith’s Facebook page where you can see more photos and read more about his heart surgery adventure.

A few days before his heart surgery, Keith shared this scripture on Facebook.

”Keep and guard your heart with all vigilance and above all that you guard, for out of it flow the springs of life.“

Proverbs‬ ‭4‬:‭23‬ ‭AMPC

You can also find Keith at

Keith Wheeler Ministries

sharing the HEART of faith, hope, and love

Thanks for joining me to meet Keith Wheeler. I shared another post about Keith, with info culled from his website, social media, and videos. Keith has encountered many situations involving conflict, and one that happened surprisingly right here in Tulsa Oklahoma.

Keith Wheeler-Peacemaker Through Conflict

Keith Wheeler embarked on a remarkable journey, walking over 26,000 miles and visiting more than 200 countries, carrying a 90-pound cross to share God’s love. Amid the COVID-19 pandemic and social unrest, he adapted, spreading hope through social media and in his community. Keith’s thought-provoking reflections and unwavering faith offer a unique perspective on current events.

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a man holding a large cross
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Christians on social media-the purpose, the perils, the promise

Words have power, so it matters how we use them. If we make a mistake and share something false, misleading, or inaccurate, then we should correct it. If warranted, delete it, and explain why.  And apologize, if warranted.

Last year, I published a post about social media use, alarmed at the proliferation of misinformation, disinformation, and too much good information. I saw people, myself included, post and repost items that seemed good on the surface but with a careful look were distortions of truth, outdated, false, or self-serving rather than helpful to others. We were being contentious, disrespectful, divisive, and anything but “social”.

“Fake news” has been an issue with social media, but in 2020 it became a secondary pandemic with inaccurate, misleading, and false posts about coronavirus, lockdowns, public health, the presidential election, riots, protests, racism, etc. Due to the popularity and widespread use of social media sites and personal blogs we have all become “influencers”, like it or not.

In that post I suggested 9 strategies to share responsibly on social media.

  1. Post with purpose.
  2. Express yourself (not someone wlse)
  3. Consider the source when reading or sharing .
  4. Confirm the facts-who, when, where, what, how, why
  5. Differentiate facts from opinion
  6. Share videos with value
  7. Report accurate numbers and statistics
  8. Pause before sharing photos: are they real, are they yours?
  9. Share facts, not fear.
graphical depiction of electronic devices, paper, pencil, Bible, coffee mug

What about the Bible?

In my posts I approached these as secular problems, and they are. But even though I have a strong Christian faith, I had not thought of the spiritual implications; that is until I read a book by author N.T. Wright, Broken Signposts.

N.T. Wright, Broken Signposts

Professor Wright, or Tom as he is called, is an English New Testament scholar, theologian, and Anglican bishop. He was the bishop of Durham from 2003 to 2010, then research professor of New Testament and Early Christianity at St Mary’s College in the University of St Andrews in Scotland until 2019, when he became a senior research fellow at Wycliffe Hall at the University of Oxford.

If all that sounds academic and stuffy, he is not. Besides reading this book, I have listened to several videos and podcasts by him, and outside his academic pursuits, he is quite down to earth.

So getting back to the book, Broken Signposts:How Christianity Makes Sense of the World, I gained a different perspective about social media when I read this passage (which is edited for brevity)

man looking at a phone screen

“Idols always promise a bit extra-or perhaps a lot extra…start off as something good, a good part of God’s creation…then it attracts attention and begins to offer more than it can appropriately deliver-it starts to demand sacrifices.

Idols are addictive. We know a good deal about the forms of addiction in our society, far fewer people are addicted to cigarettes than 50 years ago, but the same kind of compulsive behavior and often the same kind of destructive behavior, is now associated with not only alcohol, cannabis, and other drugs, but with our electronic systems:smartphones, social media, Facebook, and so on.

These can become self-destructive when people portray themselves in a particular light and then struggle to live up to the image they have created.

Technology can of course be a blessing, bringing people together in all sorts of ways, but in the last analysis real relationships with real people are a form of freedom. Half-relationships with a screen personality can be a step toward slavery. “

What do others think?

So then I wondered what other Christian thinkers, theologians, pastors, or authors were saying about social media. I found several Christian denominations have specific social media guidelines for their clergy and churchs to follow. (I only looked at Christian organizations but it is likely other faiths have similar committments to responsible social media use.)

But what about lay persons I wondered, does the church or other Christian leaders offer guidance? The answer is yes.

Here are links and a brief synopsis of some of the sources I found that address how a Christian can and should reponsibly use social media.

A CHRISTIAN CODE OF ETHICS FOR USING SOCIAL MEDIA

The first I found in a Facebook post by a relative by marriage who is an Anglican priest. He shared a link to A Christian Code of Ethics for Using Social Media of the Anglican Church in North America.

The following is a simple code of ethics (5 Questions) for the follower of Jesus to consider before one clicks the “enter” button. It is intended for the follower of Jesus to remember that even in cyber-space we are witnesses (either for good or for bad) for Jesus Christ modeling a life which is supposed to emulate him.

hands keyboarding

A Christian Ethic for Social Media

More ideas came from the Denver Institute for Faith and Work. Denver Institute for Faith & Work is an educational nonprofit dedicated to forming men and women to serve God, neighbor, and society through their work.

The post at this link shares a video by Denver Institute founder Jeff Haanen in which he shares insights to answer the question

In the age of Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Snapchat, how can the Bible guide our use of social media?

Biblical Principles for Social Media

This is a blog post shared by Christopher Cone, Th.D, Ph.D, Ph.D, who serves as President and CEO of AgathonEDU Educational Group and leads Vyrsity and Colorado Biblical University. Dr. Cone has served as a President (Vyrsity, Colorado Biblical University, Calvary University, Tyndale Theological Seminary), a Chief Academic Officer (Southern California Seminary), and as a Research Professor (Vyrsity, Colorado Biblical University, Calvary University, Southern California Seminary), as well as several pastoral roles and teaching positions at the University of North Texas, North Central Texas College, and Southern Bible Institute.

Dr. Cone writes

there is an even more valuable question we can consider with respect to social media: what would Jesus do – or more precisely, what would Jesus have us do with social media? We certainly would be unwise to retreat from social media – if we desire to interact with people, social media provide fantastic tools to do that. Paul cautions believers not to disengage from the world (1 Corinthians 5:9-10), and again warns believers not to be conformed to this world (Romans 12:2). One principle in view here is to be deliberate about using tools like social media to accomplish specific (His) purposes, and not to fall into the trap of being taken captive by those tools.

Dr. Cone

The American Values Coalition has a mission of “growing a community of Americans empowered to lead with truth, reject extremism and misinformation, and defend democracy.” On the blog, writer Ian IcCloud suggests telling stories as a way to avoid the polarization that he calls “harmful to American civic life.”

3 Ways to Combat Extreme Polarization

We all need to be better at telling stories and, more specifically, better at listening to the stories of others. Stories have the power to draw us out of ourselves and move us to care for others in ways we wouldn’t otherwise choose or know to choose.

But stories only work as an end to polarization if we’re willing to admit that we can change. More bluntly, stories will only work if we are ready to accept that we could be wrong and in need of change.

15 Things Christians Should Stop Doing on Social Media

Writing for Relevant Magazine, Tim Arndt, lists 15 rules under the headings of Attitude, Distractions, Image, Discernments, and Nastiness. And a “bonus” rule

It seems like having a civil disagreement has become a rare phenomenon, but we need to learn how to disagree with charity.On social media, I’ve had disagreements with people on a wide range of topics like abortion, atheism and racial issues. I try my best to be civil and if the other person is too, I thank them for that.

Tim Arndt

Social media has changed the world and the very nature of communication. We are all able to broadcast our every thought and opinion at an unprecedented scale. But Christians must not forget that everywhere we go, we represent our savior.

Tim Arndt

In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.

Matthew 5:16, ESV

The Holy Bible, English Standard Version. ESV® Text Edition: 2016. Copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers.

THINK before you post or share

Words have power, so it matters how we use them. If we make a mistake and share something false, misleading, or inaccurate, then we should correct it. If warranted, delete it, and explain why.  And apologize, if warranted.

Harvard School of Public Health recommends we THINK twice before posting or sharing on social media-

  • Is it TRUTHFUL?
  • Is it HELPFUL?
  • Is it INSPIRING?
  • Is it NECESSARY?
  • Is it KIND?

Using Our Online Conversations for Good

Explore a Christian viewpoint on social media use with this book by Daniel Darling, an author and pastor. (this is an affiliate link)

Sadly, many Christians are fueling online incivility. Others, exhausted by perpetual outrage and shame-filled from constant comparison, are leaving social media altogether.

So, how should Christians behave in this digital age? Is there a better way? 

Daniel Darling believes we need an approach that applies biblical wisdom to our engagement with social media, an approach that neither retreats from modern technology nor ignores the harmful ways in which Christians often engage publicly. 

 In short, he believes that we can and should use our online conversations for good

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Be Kind Online: Ten Rules for Christians in a Digital Age 

exploring the HEART of responsible social media use

Please share this post on your social media sites so together we can make the social world safer, friendlier, and trustworthy. Thanks.

Dr. Aletha

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