“You’ve got to get up every morning
With a smile on your face
And show the world all the love in your heart
Then people gonna treat you better
You’re gonna find, yes you will
That you’re beautiful as you feel.”
My husband and I enjoyed a date night at the theater watching Beautiful- The Carole King Musical. The play covers the start of Ms. King’s career as a songwriter, including meeting and marrying her songwriting partner Gerry Goffin.
Together they wrote some of the most successful and memorable songs of the 1960s-1970s including
Sadly, their marriage was not as successful as their careers due to his infidelity and mental instability which culminated in hospitalization and divorce.
As I watched and heard the story portrayed on the stage I remembered her memoir which I read and reviewed here. The memoir included this part of her life as well as subsequent years, which often were as turbulent as the ones in the musical.
Here is my review of her memoir –
A Natural Woman: A Memoir
Although Carole King did not write “A Natural Woman” for herself (she and her first husband were asked to write it for Aretha Franklin), the song aptly fits her life also.
She grew up in a close Jewish family, attended school where she excelled in performing arts and graduated early. She married young and loved her husbands (four of them) passionately. She doted on her four children and did all the typical mom things- driving them to activities, homeschooling, sewing their clothes. She cooked food that she grew herself and even milked a goat she owned. She welcomed grandchildren and cared for aging parents.
She could almost be any 70 year old woman- except she is a Grammy award winning singer/songwriter who has written over 100 songs, including many of the greatest hits from the 1970s. In 2013 she became the first woman to be awarded the Library of Congress Gershwin Prize for Popular Song.
Ms. King was at the height of her career in 1972 when my husband and I met, and found a mutual appreciation for her music, and still do. So, even though I don’t read memoirs of celebrities, I made an exception this time. I wanted to know more about this talented woman, and I was not disappointed.
As I listened to the book’s audio version, read by the author, I marvelled at how she managed to live such a normal and successful life while experiencing a series of traumatic experiences starting in childhood. These included
- a sibling with physical and developmental disabilities
- the dissolution of her parents’ marriage
- financial instability in her early career
- the breakdown of her four marriages
- an extended civil lawsuit
- accidents resulting in serious physical injury
- exposure to mental illness and substance abuse
The last issue led to two of her divorces, one of which followed several years of verbal and physical abuse . She candidly admits that she submitted to it, thinking that she deserved it, he didn’t mean to hurt her, and that he would change.
Fortunately, one night she woke up with the conviction that she needed help. Counselling helped her develop personal resources to resist and stop the abuse. She urges women in similar circumstances to seek help and recommends
The National Domestic Violence Hotline | 24/7 Confidential Support.
I am sad that she experienced such pain in her life, all the while brightening other lives with her music. She said that music helped her cope with the challenges in her life.
Her life reminds us that people who appear successful and accomplished in some areas of life, may be unhappy and hurting in others. We may never know the pain that some have walked through to get where they are.
Carole King insists she never wanted to be a star or diva, and she zealously guarded her privacy. According to this book, she valued most her family, relationships, writing songs and sharing her music. I am glad she decided to share this side of her life and the lessons it teaches . Thank you Carole King.
Here is a selection of Carole King’s music
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Tapestry Carole King’s first and most successful album
Beautiful: The Carole King Musical the story of Carole’s life and career
Live at the Troubadour Carole King singing with her friend James Taylor
The Carnegie Hall Concert (Live) June 1971
Listen to Carole King on Apple Music
sharing the HEART of health in music
And don’t forget to enjoy some music today, whatever makes you feel BEAUTIFUL.
8 thoughts on “Beautiful- remembering the music of Carole King”
I love Carole King. I Feel the Earth Move is one of my favorites. I may have to purchase her book now. Thanks for sharing on Sunday’s Best.
That’s one of my favorites too. It’s frequently quoted here in Oklahoma when we have earthquakes, lol. (due to fracking, which has been happening less often now) The book covers many more years and more detail than the play, so they complement each other well.
I loved Tapestry and I believe the show Beautiful is coming to Australia. I’m hoping to see it. Thanks Aletha for sharing at #BloggersPitStop and bringing back fond memories.
Sue, I hope you and your husband are able to see it, it was “Wonderful.” We always need reminders of happy times.
I love Carole King’s music. Tapestry was one of the first albums I owned, and I still listen to the music on my iPod today. Thanks for sharing some of the details of her life. I may have to read her book now. I definitely want to see the musical.
Christie, we still have the Tapestry album. The musical is a must see for fans of her music. Having read her book helped me understand what was shown in the play. The play definitely is meant to showcase her music, but it also does a nice job portraying her personal and marital struggles.
I have always loved her voice! And her songs lyrics. Although, I decided long ago to not read about celebrities lives because I was usually disappointed and wouldn’t like them as much as I had. Now, I think though that I’ve matured in my thinking and that we all make mistakes and theirs are no worse than anyone elses, just more public.
Thank you Nikki, yes her voice is unique. She considered herself a songwriter and had to be coaxed into singing, she was shy about singing in public. I’m glad she overcame that. I appreciate when celebrities are willing to share their problems and mistakes in order to help others, I admire that.