In Oklahoma, a time to mourn and a time to dance-after the bombing

At 9:02 am April 19, 1995 the bomb exploded, destroying one side of the federal building, damaging several adjacent buildings, injuring 680 people and killing 168 people, including 19 children.

Until September 11, 2001, it was the deadliest terrorist attack on United States soil; it remains the worst domestic terrorist attack.

An annual event, the Oklahoma Challenge Ballroom Dance competition draws dancers from Oklahoma, surrounding states, and as far away as Toronto, Ontario. Many return every year to compete against dancers who have now become dance friends.

The competition occurs at a hotel in downtown Oklahoma City. Nearby is the Bricktown historic district with trendy restaurants, hotels, clubs, shops, and the Paycom Center, home of the Oklahoma City Thunder basketball team.

Also not far away is the site of the biggest “challenge” the city and our state has ever faced- the 1995 domestic terrorist attack on the Murrah Federal Building. On a spring morning in April, a terrorist parked a rental truck on the street in front of the building; the truck contained a 5000-pound bomb made of ammonium nitrate and fuel oil.

A morning of terror

At 9:02 am on April 19, 1995, the bomb exploded, destroying one side of the federal building, damaging several adjacent buildings, injuring 680 people, and killing 168 people, including 19 children.

Until September 11, 2001, it was the deadliest terrorist attack on United States soil; it remains the worst domestic terrorist attack.

There is a time to mourn and a time to dance.

Ecclesiastes 3:4

A day of remembrance

On April 19, 2000, the Oklahoma City National Memorial was dedicated; the Museum opened a year later.  I have visited several times, and always come away having seen and learned something new. If you ever travel through Oklahoma, I recommend you put this on your must-see list. When you come,  here are some of the images you will see and experience. 

OKC memorial and federal building in the distance
the West Gate of the memorial looking northwest toward the new federal building
Oklahoma City National Memorial and Museum entrance
Oklahoma City National Memorial and Museum entrance
window at the museum
window from the museum overlooking outdoor memorial
Memorial pool and chairs
168 lighted chairs sit on the south lawn of the Memorial.
gold statue shaped like a chair
There is a gold chair for each person who died from the bombing that day.

168 Oklahomans lost their lives there that day, including 19 children.

A lifetime of honor

In the days, weeks, and months following the attack, we learned all the details about the bombing- the perpetrators, the victims, the rescuers, the survivors.

My husband and I visited the site after the wreckage was imploded and the site was fenced off. The fence became a makeshift memorial, as people left mementos of all kinds- dolls, stuffed animals, photos, pictures, flowers, crafts, flags, shirts, and letters.  

We visited the official memorial and the museum established on April 19, 2000. Sections of the fence were left intact, and people still leave mementos; others became part of the museum collection.

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A long section of the original fence has been left intact, as well as parts of the original federal building wall.

sections of damaged wall
sections of damaged wall

Until 9/11, it was the deadliest act of terrorism on United States soil.

"We search for the Truth" written on a wall.
On the wall of the Journal Record Building which was also damaged by the blast; the museum now occupies part of it.

The perpetrators were caught and brought to justice. The driver of the truck was convicted, sentenced to death, and died by execution. The other remains in prison for life.

That day in Oklahoma City showed the best in our state and our country as people, some with no training, risked their lives to help rescue people who were injured and trapped inside. Firefighters and police came from all over the United States to help. People donated food and first aid supplies.

children and adults visiting a wall decorated with handprints
Schools regularly bring students to visit the memorial and museum
colorful hand painted tiles from children
Tiles hand painted by children were sent to the city as a show of support and sympathy.
bright colored flowers along a wall
Pansies are popular in Oklahoma in the fall and spring.

I was proud to be an Oklahoman then and now, and still grieve for the lives we lost that day.

The Survivor Tree
The Survivor Tree, an American elm, survived the blast and is part of the Memorial.

 

statue of Christ with head bowed
statue of a grieving Christ, in the courtyard of a church across the street from the memorial

 

“We remember that moment that is framed forever by these twin gates. Our place of remembrance is filled with those symbols (ribbons, angels, flags) and also filled with love-the love of countless Americans whose ideas and support and contributions helped create this beautiful memorial.

On April 19 five years ago the flag of our nation was flying over the Murrah building. It is flying over our memorial today, and flies proudly in our hearts.

For those who perpetrated this act, we have one message:

In America you can speak and vote and complain, but there is no right to maim and bomb and kill…and if you think you’ll bring that flag down, there is your answer.

We are all Oklahomans today, and we are all Americans. May God continue to bless our beloved land. “

Oklahoma Governor Frank Keating, April 19, 2000

quote from The Official Record of the Oklahoma City Bombing, published by Oklahoma Today Magazine 

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I will never forget the Oklahoma City bombing

On April 19, 1995, a devastating bombing occurred at the Federal building in Oklahoma City, claiming 168 lives. This tragedy united the community as many selflessly assisted in rescue efforts. A memorial and museum now honor the victims, serving as a poignant reminder of that day’s impact, especially on the 30th anniversary.

updated April 18, 2025

On April 19, 1995 I was seeing patients in my family practice office in Tulsa Oklahoma when my medical assistant told me a bomb had exploded in Oklahoma City, 90 miles away.

We didn’t have computers or cell phones so I turned on a radio. The words I heard shocked and saddened me.

It was true. A massive bomb had exploded at the Federal building in downtown Oklahoma City, something I thought only happened overseas.

Who would bomb a building in Oklahoma?

at the entrance to the memorial museum, artwork done by local schoolchildren is displayed on a brick wall

That day in Oklahoma City showed some of the best in our state and our country as people, some with no training, risked their lives to help rescue people who were injured and trapped inside.

Firefighters and police came from all over the United States to help. People donated food and first aid supplies. I was proud to be an Oklahoman then and now, and still grieve for the loss we sustained that day.

Oklahoma City National Memorial and Museum

Today a beautiful memorial and museum stands at the site of the rubble where 168 people died-employees, visitors, children. When you visit Oklahoma, don’t miss seeing this moving tribute to their memory. You will never feel the same.

window at the Oklahoma City bombing museum
Oklahoma City National Memorial and Museum
gold memorial chairs by reflecting pool
At the reflecting pool stand 168 gold chairs, honoring the dead

Cover Image

I took the cover image of the Survivor Tree.

“Before the bombing, the tree was important because it provided the only shade in the downtown parking lot. People would arrive early to work just to be able to park under the shade of the tree’s branches.

On April 19, 1995, the tree was almost chopped down in order to recover pieces of evidence that hung from its branches after a 4,000 pound bomb that killed 168 and injured hundreds exploded just yards away.”

Continue reading the tree’s history at this link.

In this post, I wrote more about the event.

Remembering the Oklahoma City bombing April 19, 1995

April 19  is the anniversary of the 1995 bombing of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, which remains the deadliest domestic “homegrown” terrorist incident in the United States. I lived there in the 1970s while in medical school and residency at the University of Oklahoma Medical Center and visit frequently. These are…

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Thank you for remembering the Oklahoma City bombing with me on the 30th anniversary. I took the photos in this post during one of my visits to the site.

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