Many health issues would resolve or be easier to manage if life stressors would just go away. Three fourths of the patients treated by primary care physicians have problems aggravated by emotional, social, or behavioral issues.
As a college graduation gift, I gave a friend’s son a gift certificate to Barnes and Noble Bookseller. He earned a mechanical engineering degree and will work as a rocket structural engineer.
He sent me a nice handwritten thank you note (which few people do these days) and said he plans to use it to buy a book that other structural engineers recommend. The book is Roark’s Formulas for Stress and Strain.
Wouldn’t it be nice if there were a formula for handling the stress and strain of life?
Many health issues would resolve or be easier to manage if life stressors would just go away. Three fourths of the patients treated by primary care physicians have problems aggravated by emotional, social, or behavioral issues.
Life’s interruptions and disruptions won’t disappear, but you can make them less of a strain on your time, energy, and resources. There’s usually no quick fix but 5 steps can lessen their impact.
I learned the value of these steps when I dealt with the stress of a foot fracture that required surgery to correct it, and a longer convalescence than I expected. For someone who is used to being active, the prolonged inactivity stressed me both physically and emotionally. These 5 steps were already a part of my life, but consciously choosing them helped me cope with what would otherwise cause frustration and sadness.
5 steps to manage life’s stress and strain
1. Create and maintain a routine and schedule.
Having a plan for your time helps you feel more in control of your life. Resist the tendency to become socially isolated or avoid activities you usually enjoy.
Times of crisis, loss, or illness may leave you feeling disconnected and adrift, but having a schedule provides structure and connection. When you are busy, you are less likely to feel overwhelmed and hopeless.
2. Recognizing and reaching out to social supports
Your family and friends are your first line of support during times of stress and duress. It’s nice if we don’t have to ask for their support, but their lives are busy too, so don’t be hesitant to ask for help if you need it. If they don’t call you, call them.
Conversation over coffee can be therapeutic. graphic from the Lightstock collection( affiliate link)
Other sources for help include your healthcare professionals; don’t be embarrassed to share that you need social and emotional support. Your doctor can help you identify and get connected with community resources.
Look for help from your or your spouse’s job, your religious community, organizations you belong to, your school, and online resources for support- educational sites, forums, support groups. Although not as personal as face to face support, these are helpful if you are geographically isolated or mobility is difficult.
3. Reframe by refocusing on the positive rather than the negative.
Recognizing and emphasizing the positive in life makes the problems less overwhelming and distressing. Look for something to be grateful for, or that brings a little joy into your day. It may be as simple as flowers blooming in your yard, your favorite tea and sweet, a funny story in a magazine.
Balloons are nice, too.
Remembering and observing happy events, occasions, and celebrations can also be sources of renewed joy.
Norma, a woman facing terminal illness, reframed her crisis by finding joy in small things, like jigsaw puzzles, new foods, and a “good perm”. Read more about her at
Physical activity doesn’t have to be a chore, boring, or expensive. Many things can be done at home or in your neighborhood-walking, bicycling, cardio, yoga. If exercise isn’t your thing, try dancing, gardening, swimming.
If your physical mobility is limited, try something stimulating mentally-sewing, crafts, games, puzzles, writing, cooking are just a few possibilities.
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5. Nurture your inner self
Sometimes we need to withdraw from outward activities and stimulation for times of quiet rest and reflection.
You may find help from mindfulness, meditation, prayer, devotional reading, music, journaling, or a combination of these approaches.
I use the breathing exercises on the Aaptiv Fitness app to relax and unwind after a long day.
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Winners have positive attitudes in all elements of their lives. The more you think about, talk about, and write about a thing happening, the greater the certainty of that thing happening.
“a federally chartered nonprofit corporation and does not receive federal financial support (other than for select Paralympic military programs). Unlike most other nations, the United States does not have a sports ministry.”
USOC
“The USOC has two primary responsibilities in its oversight of Olympic and Paralympic sport in the United States.
to generate resources in support of its mission, which is to help American athletes achieve sustained competitive excellence.
to ensure organizational resources are wisely and effectively used to that end.”
A visit to Team USA in Colorado Springs
I toured the United States Olympic Training facility in Colorado Springs, Colorado. Both Olympic and Paralympic athletes train and live here. The facilities are state of the art, modern and open to the public for visits and tours.
In this post I’m sharing my tour with you.
brief history of the Olympic Games
As much as I admire the elite athletes who comprise the Olympic team, the Paralympic athletes captivate my imagination.
These athletes compete with, not despite, significant physical impairments. Many of them play and compete in physically demanding sports without full use of their arms and legs; some don’t even have all of their arms and legs.
Lessons for sports and life
As we walked around the complex on a guided tour, I was reminded of the importance of physical activity for our physical and mental health. Although there is a lot of conflicting advice on preventive health, all experts agree that physical activity is vital to achieving and maintaining optimal health and well being.
Adults caring for children this age should encourage active play (light, moderate, or vigorous intensity) and aim for at least 3 hours per day.
Each day, youth ages 6 through 17 need at least 60 minutes of moderate-to-vigorous activity to attain the most health benefits from physical activity.
To attain the most health benefits from physical activity, adults need at least 150 to 300 minutes of moderate-intensity aerobic activity, like brisk walking or fast dancing, each week. Adults also need muscle-strengthening activity, like lifting weights or doing push-ups, at least 2 days each week.
The first key guideline for adults is to move more and sit less.
New evidence shows that physical activity has immediate health benefits
We now know that any amount of physical activity has some health benefits. Americans can benefit from small amounts of moderate-to-vigorous physical activity throughout the day.
Medical studies show that exercise can prevent or improve many chronic health conditions and lack of exercise contributes to many diseases.
Physical activity may reduce the risk of cancers of the breast, colon, uterus, prostate and pancreas.
Regular exercise may help prevent diabetes and heart disease.
Exercise relieves joint and back pain due to arthritis.
Depression is improved with physical activity .
Winning Attitudes
As we walked through the USA Shooting area I picked up a flyer titled “Winning Attitudes”, which I’m using as captions for my photos. I hope they will encourage you to develop a “winning attitude” in all areas of your life.
Enjoy this brief tour through the Olympic Complex and if you go to Colorado Springs, be sure and visit; the cost is reasonable and worth the price.
lesson 1
Become excited, confident, and enthusiastic about your goals.
lesson 2
True confidence is based on the thoroughness of preparation.
lesson 3
Winners have the ability to look inside themselves and find that special dream.
memorial to Flora Jean Hyman, volleyball player
lesson 4
Winners focus on solutions, not problems.
wheelchairs adapted for playing
lesson 5
Winners have positive attitudes in all elements of their lives. The more you think about, talk about, and write about a thing happening, the greater the certainty of that thing happening.
on display in the Hall of Fame
lesson 6
Goals should identify minimum performance levels. They should never limit your performance.
a real “olympic sized” swimming pool
lesson 7
Real winners are champions in life, not just in sports.
Runner Tyson Gay and gymnast Mary Lou Retton in the Hall of Fame
lesson 8
Missing a goal means setting another goal to strive for.
multi use gymnasium
lesson 9
A champion constantly learns and improves.
words to train by and live by
lesson 10
Champions are willing to risk a little in the short run to gain an advantage in the long run.
2 athletes hard at work
lesson 11
Winners have the ability to look inside themselves and find that special dream.
I may not be a competitive athlete, but I will stay as active as possible as long as possible.
Look out Raymond!
lesson 12
Excellence is achieved only through constant pursuit.
passing the torch
lesson 13
A champion constantly learns and improves .
The athletes live, eat, and sleep here.
lesson 14
Real winners are champions in life, not just sports.
lesson 15
Don’t just achieve your goals; strive to exceed your goals.
Are YOU a CHAMPION?
Which of these “winning attitudes” do you live by? Which do you need to adopt?
sharing the HEART of a champion
Thanks for visiting this blog and exploring with me. I hope you’ll explore my blog further before you leave.
Dr Aletha
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