Don’t believe the Superwoman myth-a book review

The concept of the “Virtuous Woman” from Proverbs 31 often intimidates women striving for excellence. Vicki Courtney’s book challenges the “Superwoman Myth,” defining self-worth according to God’s standards rather than societal comparisons. Properly understanding one’s worth can reduce anxieties while enjoying one’s unique gifts as a woman.

The Bible’s “Superwoman”

  Who can find a virtuous woman?
for her price is far above rubies.

Proverbs 31:10, KJV, King James Version, public domain
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If you’ve read or heard much of the Bible, you’re probably familiar with the Proverbs 31 “Virtuous Woman”. And if you attend church you’ve probably heard a sermon or a class about it. And you may have felt intimidated by trying to live up to this ideal woman.

More modern translations of the Bible translate the King James Version Bible word virtuous simply as “excellent, capable, noble, or truly good.”


But women can still feel they don’t measure up to the ideal.

Even though Vickey Courtney wrote her book, The Virtuous Woman: Shattering the Superwoman Myth, 20 years ago, not much has changed in women’s standards for themselves and others. And not just in the church.

With social media, we can quickly and easily compare ourselves to each other, and to popular “influencers”, causing us to feel even more pressure to measure up.

Shattering the Superwoman Myth

But Vicky Courtney shows us a different view of excellence, or what one Bible version calls a “woman of strength” (NRSUE).

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“Deep in the heart of every person is a desperate need to feel worth and value. Most people will end up defining their worth according to the world rather than by God’s standard of measure.

Defining our worth correctly is critical not only in our pursuit to be a virtuous (excellent) woman but for our overall mental health. One can wonder how many addictions, mental anxieties, and health problems could be avoided if the worth of the individual had been properly defined in the first place.

The virtuous (excellent) woman of Proverbs 31 had defined her worth according to God’s standards. “

Vicki Courtney

Click here to read the first chapter

 

another view to consider

THE BIBLE RECAP is a way to read through the Bible in a year, in the order the events happened (as well as is known), with a short, daily, easy-to-understand “recap” by Tara-Leigh Cobble. I’ve been doing it this year and understand the Bible better than ever.

Bible teacher Tara-Leigh Cobble, writer and speaker for THE BIBLE RECAP, gives her view on the virtuous woman in this YouTube video.

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Dress strong and laugh often

Can you laugh when things aren’t quite what you expect, maybe even difficult ? Laugher makes life lighter.

Who can find an excellent woman?
    She is worth far more than rubies.

 She opens her arms to those who are poor.
    She reaches out her hands to those who are needy.


 When it snows, she’s not afraid for her family.
    All of them are dressed in the finest clothes.

 She makes her own bed coverings.
    She is dressed in fine linen and purple clothes.

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 She makes linen clothes and sells them.
    She supplies belts to the traders.


 She puts on strength and honor as if they were her clothes    

She can laugh at the days that are coming.

Preverbs 31, NIRV

New International Reader’s Version (NIRV)Copyright © 1995, 1996, 1998, 2014 by Biblica, Inc.®. Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.

“The Bible advocates laughter as a part of our lives, yet we often allow the seriousness of life to quench our laughter. Lighten up when you fall short of perfection. While it is important to learn from our mistakes, it is equally important to laugh at our shortcomings.

The virtuous (excellent) woman of Proverbs 31 appears to have come to a place in her life where she trusted God with a calm, settled peace, and no matter what life brought her way, she determined never to stop laughing. If we are to laugh at the days to come, we must first learn to laugh at the day at hand. “

Vicki Courtney, author
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the Virtuous Woman-Shattering the Superwoman Myth

 

 

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