The Story of American Gold Star Mothers

The American Gold Star Mothers organization was founded in 1928 by Grace Darling Seibold, a mother who lost her son in World War I. The group aims to support veterans, active duty military, and their families across the US. They offer economic and social support, and participate in various initiatives to honor and assist military personnel.

Who are Gold Star Mothers?

Mothers working together to honor and preserve the memory of their fallen children by continuing their service to the military community.

American Gold Star Mothers website

American Gold Star Mothers in the United States volunteer thousands of hours yearly to support Veterans, Active Duty Military, and their families. 

They provide economic and social support to these brave men and women.

Who started Gold Star Mothers?

Grace Darling Seibold founded the organization June 4, 1928, in Washington, D.C.
The Ninety-Eighth Congress of the United States granted their Charter on June 12, 1984.

Grace’s story

While her son George served with England during World War I, Grace Darling Seibold began performing community service by visiting returning servicemen in hospitals in Washington, D.C.


With no news from George, Grace continued visiting hospitalized veterans believing her son might have been injured, and returned to the United States without any identification.


Working through her sorrow, she helped ease the pain of the many servicemen who returned traumatized.


Grace, realizing that self-contained grief is self-destructive, devoted her time and efforts to not only working in the hospital but extending the hand of friendship to other mothers whose sons had lost their lives in military service.

American Gold Star Mothers, Inc. website

On October 11, 1918, George’s wife in Chicago received a box marked “Effects of deceased Officer 1st Lt. George Vaughn Seibold”.  George’s family also received a confirmation of George’s death on November 4th through a family member in Paris.

George’s body was never identified.

Why start an organization?

Through her grief, Grace organized a group of other mothers, to comfort each other, and to give loving care to hospitalized veterans confined in government hospitals far from home.

That Knock at the Door: The History of Gold Star Mothers in America

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The organization was named after the Gold Star that families hung in their windows in honor of the deceased veteran. 

American Gold Star Mothers

Now over 140 Chapters of American Gold Star Mothers, Inc. across the United States support veterans, active duty service members, and their families by hosting events to honor these men and women while educating the community about service and patriotism.  Initiatives include:

  • Visiting VA Homes and Hospitals
  • Packaging and shipping care packages to deployed service members.
  • Purchasing school supplies and clothes for veterans, active duty service members, and Gold Star children.
  • Participating in community events that celebrate military service.
  • Participating in national and local Memorial Day and Veterans Day events.
  • Making holiday meals for Veterans Homes and Military Bases.
  • Providing assistance with home repairs, vehicle repairs, and moving expenses.

The organization is located in the heart of the United States capital at

​American Gold Star Mothers, Inc. Headquarters
2128 Leroy Place NW
Washington, D.C. 20008

And you can follow them on Facebook.

Arlington National Cemetery

I took these photos of Arlington Cemetery while visiting Washington DC in August 2022. This area was under construction due to the planned expansion of Arlington National Cemetery by realigning the adjacent roads, adding roughly 50 acres to the cemetery for 80,000 new burial spaces, as the cemetery is now close to capacity.

Gold Star Mother’s and Family’s Day

In 1936, Congress designated the last Sunday in September as Gold Star Mother’s Day (now known as Gold Star Mother’s and Family’s Day).

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Our Sons Our Heroes: Memories Shared by America’s Gold Star Mothers from the Vietnam War

My husband Raymond and I visited the Vietnam Veterans Memorial in Washington D.C.

Wreaths Across America

2022 Wreaths Across America Day at Arlington National Cemetery
Volunteers participate in the 31st Wreaths Across America Day at Arlington National Cemetery, Arlington, Va., Dec. 17, 2022. On this day, nearly 30,000 volunteers placed 257,000 wreaths at every gravesite, columbarium court column, and niche wall column at Arlington National Cemetery. (U.S. Army photo by Elizabeth Fraser / Arlington National Cemetery / released)

Anyone can sponsor a wreath to be laid at a veteran’s grave on Wreaths Across America day held on the 3rd Saturday in December annually.

You can donate and find a local participating cemetery at this link.

My husband and I donate and lay wreaths at our local observance.

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Honoring Memorial Day: Understanding the Poppy Symbolism

Memorial Day is more than just the unofficial start of summer – it is a day to honor the brave men and women who died defending our freedom. The poppy, symbolizing this remembrance, is tied to the iconic war poem “In Flanders Fields” by Lt. Col. John McCrae, a Canadian physician deeply affected by the…

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Dishing out love

The mistake we should never make is to be generous with judgment and stingy with love. The people around us are starving for love and we need to unlock our pantry and see to it that everybody gets a belly full.

My husband Raymond and I have had the honor and pleasure of knowing Bob Peragallo and his wife for several years. He is the Board Chairman for Vets With a Mission  (VWAM) , a faith based humanitarian organization;  we have served with them on mission trips to VietNam.

Like my husband, Bob is a veteran of the American war in Vietnam. After his military service, he pastored a church. Here he shares his thoughts on pastoring, leading a service organization, and serving people in need. Words worth sharing

two veterans in Vietnam
Raymond Oglesby, Bob Peragallo and local officials at Trabong Vietnam

“Often people come to me searching for something deeper than a 500 character religious platitude, something stronger than a scripture icon or soundbyte. Like them, I need something I can touch, see and feel. What we need is love because only love can satisfy us.

When this need happens for me, I never want to have to walk away empty handed or when it is my turn to be the giver of this love, God help me to never give them a substitute.

We all believe in love, but often we love the idea of love, when it needs to be our job description. God declares Himself to be “Love” and He is, but it doesn’t always run in the family. Far too often, our lives become a poor substitute for the Jesus that the world is looking to see. If I lose my focus, I may give a poor substitute for this kind of love.

As someone who has received this love from my heavenly Father, I should always err on the side of loving people.

volunteer team members dishing out love in Vietnam

We might give our religious form, our knowledge of God or worst yet, my version of what is right (oh, how I love to be right). We can dish out our political views, judgments and contempt, even silence. We all understand and can relate to this from personal experience…and we know how much it sucks.

The mistake we should never make is to be generous with judgment and stingy with love. The people around us are starving for love and we need to unlock our pantry and see to it that everybody gets a belly full.

That doesn’t mean you always tell them what they want to hear and that they are not accountable. Whenever I find myself in this tension with people, or if you do, always do your best to fill that gap with compassion, kindness and decency. When you need love nothing else will work. My job is to love others, not see to it that others love me. “

my husband snapped this photo of me with Bob; he went with us to visit the site of Raymond's firebase during the war
my husband snapped this photo of me with Bob; he went with us to visit the site of Raymond’s firebase during the war
along the way we visited the memorial at Son My, better know to Americans as My Lai, site of the infamous massacre
along the way we visited the memorial at Son My, better known to Americans as My Lai, site of the infamous massacre
"And now these three remain:faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love."
1 Corinthians 13:13, photo from the Lightstock.com collection (affiliate link)

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Dr. Aletha