Category: History and current events

I will never forget the Oklahoma City bombing

On April 19, 1995, a devastating bombing occurred at the Federal building in Oklahoma City, claiming 168 lives. This tragedy united the community as many selflessly assisted in rescue efforts. A memorial and museum now honor the victims, serving as a poignant reminder of that day’s impact, especially on the 30th anniversary.

updated April 18, 2025

On April 19, 1995 I was seeing patients in my family practice office in Tulsa Oklahoma when my medical assistant told me a bomb had exploded in Oklahoma City, 90 miles away.

We didn’t have computers or cell phones so I turned on a radio. The words I heard shocked and saddened me.

It was true. A massive bomb had exploded at the Federal building in downtown Oklahoma City, something I thought only happened overseas.

Who would bomb a building in Oklahoma?

at the entrance to the memorial museum, artwork done by local schoolchildren is displayed on a brick wall

That day in Oklahoma City showed some of the best in our state and our country as people, some with no training, risked their lives to help rescue people who were injured and trapped inside.

Firefighters and police came from all over the United States to help. People donated food and first aid supplies. I was proud to be an Oklahoman then and now, and still grieve for the loss we sustained that day.

Oklahoma City National Memorial and Museum

Today a beautiful memorial and museum stands at the site of the rubble where 168 people died-employees, visitors, children. When you visit Oklahoma, don’t miss seeing this moving tribute to their memory. You will never feel the same.

window at the Oklahoma City bombing museum
Oklahoma City National Memorial and Museum
gold memorial chairs by reflecting pool
At the reflecting pool stand 168 gold chairs, honoring the dead

Cover Image

I took the cover image of the Survivor Tree.

“Before the bombing, the tree was important because it provided the only shade in the downtown parking lot. People would arrive early to work just to be able to park under the shade of the tree’s branches.

On April 19, 1995, the tree was almost chopped down in order to recover pieces of evidence that hung from its branches after a 4,000 pound bomb that killed 168 and injured hundreds exploded just yards away.”

Continue reading the tree’s history at this link.

In this post, I wrote more about the event.

Remembering the Oklahoma City bombing April 19, 1995

April 19  is the anniversary of the 1995 bombing of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, which remains the deadliest domestic “homegrown” terrorist incident in the United States. I lived there in the 1970s while in medical school and residency at the University of Oklahoma Medical Center and visit frequently. These are…

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Thank you for remembering the Oklahoma City bombing with me on the 30th anniversary. I took the photos in this post during one of my visits to the site.

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Working Stiff: Two Years, 262 Bodies, and The Making of a Medical Examiner- a book review

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Working Stiff -a book review to remember 9/11

When she applied for a position in New York City at the NYC Office of the Chief Medical Examiner (OCME), Dr. Judy Melinek never imagined that decision would plunge her into the nightmare of September 11, 2001. She was at the ME office that day when the Twin Towers were attacked and fell, killing thousands…

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Working Stiff: The Making of a Medical Examiner

Judy Melinek, M.D., and her husband T.J. Mitchell wrote Working Stiff: The Making of a Medical Examiner, an account of her training as a forensic pathologist, a physician specialist who investigates sudden, unexpected, or violent deaths.

They lived in New York City for two years so she could study at the NYC Office of the Chief Medical Examiner (OCME). She was at the office when the Twin Towers fell on 9/11 and thus collaborated with the team of investigators who worked night and day identifying remains of the victims, a task she vividly describes in the book.

As a forensic pathologist, she understands why and how people die, and therefore also knows how people can avoid dying unexpectedly. As she writes,

“So don’t jaywalk. Wear your seat belt when you drive. Better yet, stay out of your car and get some exercise. Watch your weight. If you’re a smoker, stop right now. If you aren’t, don’t start. Guns put holes in people. Drugs are bad. You know that yellow line on the subway platform? It’s there for a reason. Staying alive, as it turns out, is mostly common sense.” 

Working Stiff moves at a quick pace, in a conversational style. When she uses medical jargon, she explains it in simple terms. She describes the cases she investigated in detail so those with weak stomachs (no pun) may want to skip this read.

Having suffered her father’s unexpected death when she was 13 years old, she was no stranger to death, and she learned more from the 262 autopsies she did during her training. As she says in this engaging memoir,

“To confront death every day, to see it for yourself, you have to love the living.” 

Dr. Judy Melinek

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Medical stethoscope and heart on a textured background

Dr Aletha