Celebrating Women: Health and Wellness Month

Mother’s Day celebrates mothers. While many enjoy meaningful family gatherings, others may experience grief and loss, which should be acknowledged and addressed. May also marks National Women’s Health Month, focusing on women’s health needs. The Women’s Health Initiative remains a vital tool for understanding women’s unique health needs and the current administration has pledged support despite recent funding concerns.

Mother’s Day

We designate the second Sunday in May to honor mothers in the United States.

Many, if not most, nations reserve a day to honor mothers. People everywhere recognize women’s value, not only biological mothers.

American Press Association, C. C. (ca. 1912) Youngest parader in New York City suffragist parade. New York, ca. 1912. 1912 May 4, May 6. [Photograph] Retrieved from the Library of Congress, https://www.loc.gov/item/97500068/.

MOTHER’S DAY -the movie

From Garry Marshall, the director of Pretty Woman and Valentine’s Day, comes MOTHER’S DAY, an all-star comedy that celebrates parenthood and family.

Jennifer Aniston, Julia Roberts, Kate Hudson, and Jason Sudeikis lead an incredible cast in a film that intersects the lives of a group of people maneuvering their way through a crazy week of difficult relationships and family dysfunction in the week leading up to Mother’s Day.

It’s a comedy that will make you laugh, cry, and cheer! (This is an affiliate income-generating link)

Mother’s Day-a sad reality

But life isn’t a sitcom; sometimes family dysfunction, unexpected tragedies, and unfilled dreams can make this and other holidays difficult.

While many will buy flowers and cards for mothers and attend family brunches honoring motherhood, many will also spend Mother’s Day in grief and envy.

Many will spend the day mourning the absence of a loved and longed-for child. On a day dedicated to motherhood and maternal bonds, many will spend the day grieving over what they don’t have or never got to experience.

Elizabeth A Grill, Psy.D,

Dr. Grill offers advice on how to cope at this link.

Joannie DeBrito, Ph.D., offers this approach for women when Mother’s Day hurts.

If this Mother’s Day brings you hurt rather than joy, I encourage you to be honest with trusted family members and friends. Let them know you’re struggling and be willing to ask for help.

You’ll probably find that your honesty will encourage others in your life to open up and share their hurts with you. 

Joannie DeBrito, Ph.D.

If you struggle with depression, anxiety, or other issues that limit your enjoyment of life for any reason, consider seeking professional help. Start by talking to your physician, who may refer you to a mental health professional. You may also want to consider an online source for help available through Brightside.

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Women’s Health Month

The NCCC designates May as National Women’s Health Month.

Every year in May we shine an especially bright spotlight on the unique health needs of girls and women.

New policies and programs make quality healthcare accessible for millions and we want to make sure you take advantage of all that’s available.

You deserve to be well cared for in mind and body!

National Cervical Cancer Coalition -NCCC

National Women’s Health Week

Every May beginning on Mother’s Day, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services’ (HHS) Office on Women’s Health (OWH) leads National Women’s Health Week (NWHW).

This observance aims to highlight women’s health issues and priorities and encourage women of all ages to prioritize their physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

Women’s Health Initiative

The Women’s Health Initiative (WHI) is a long-term national health study funded by the National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute, or NHLBI. (An agency of the National Institutes of Health, NIH.)

The original WHI study began in the early 1990s and concluded in 2005. The study continued as Extension Studies in 2005 and 2010. The program was groundbreaking because it focused on women’s health when most medical studies focused on men.

The main research areas are cardiovascular disease, cancers, and osteoporotic fractures. Studies also focus on strategies to prevent the major causes of death, disability, and frailty in older women.

On April 22, 2025, multiple news media reported that the current administration was “gutting” funding for the WHI, shocking the medical research community.

However, barely two days later, the decision was reversed. According to CNN, HHS Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr. said, “we are not terminating this study.”

Preeclampsia Awareness Month

Thousands of women and babies get very sick each year from a dangerous condition called preeclampsia, a life-threatening high blood pressure disorder that occurs only during pregnancy and the post-delivery period.

Preeclampsia and related disorders such as gestational hypertension, HELLP syndrome, and eclampsia are most often characterized by a rapid rise in blood pressure that can lead to seizure, stroke, multiple organ failure, and even death of the mother and/or baby.

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The PDF available for download is from the National Cancer Institute.

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The Berenstain Bears book series was one of my sons’ favorites. I still like them.

Happy Mother’s Day

from The Berenstain Bears

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Rory Feek’s new life and love-an update again

After 9 years of blogging, I am reviewing old posts, sharing updates and new insights. This post reflects on a review written in 2017 about “To Joey, with Love,” a film about a married couple facing life’s challenges. It also shares Rory Feek’s personal story, including finding love again after his wife’s passing.

update June 26, 2025

I noticed recent traffic to this post so I decided to investigate. I searched “Rory Feek” online and found an” obituary”! I was surprised since I had seen nothing on the social media channels I follow. It turned out to be a prime example of “clickbait,” as no obituary existed.

I continued researching on Facebook, YouTube, and his own website, and he appears to be alive and well. There is a video of his 2025 Homestead Festival from 2 weeks ago.

I pride myself on sharing information that is true, accurate, and timely. I don’t ever want to lure someone here under false pretenses. As my tagline says

I share information and inspiration to help you turn health challenges into wellness opportunities.

updated August 31, 2024

This marks my 10th year of blogging, a milestone I never anticipated when I posted my first piece in February 2015. This year I planned to revisit older posts to share updates and new insights with you. I am finding that some of these stories are updating themselves, like this one.

This is the second update to this post, and one I wish I didn’t need to share. Things are not always as picture-perfect as they seem no matter how hard we try to make it so. Families have problems and when members of those families are public persons, they are open to the scrutiny they probably would prefer to avoid.

Rory Feek recently remarried, giving his little girl Indy a new mother, having lost her biological mom as a toddler. Her older half-sisters have made public allegations about Indy’s safety that are hard to ignore.

I don’t know who is right and who is wrong. I am sharing information here so you can read it and decide for yourself. Whatever the case, little Indy needs our love, support, and prayer.

Rory Feek’s Daughter Heidi Responds to Dad’s Blog Post

and here is Rory’s response, posted on his blog

love, dad

In 2017 I watched a movie that moved me so much that I wrote a review of it, the first one I wrote.

(note, there are affiliate links in this post)

To Joey, With Love

A Story of Life, Love, and Hope That Never Dies

90 minutes, with Spanish and English subtitles for the hearing impaired

Provident Films 2016

To Joey, With Love- A Story of LIfe, Love and Hope That Never Dies
To Joey, With Love- A Story of Life, Love, and Hope That Never Dies

The story of Joey and Rory Feek

To Joey, with Love is the intimate, authentic, and transparent story of a couple who met head-on two of life’s most difficult challenges- a special needs child and a terminal illness. Rory Feek produced the film because he believed their story needed to be remembered, documented, and shared.

Joey and Rory

Joey and Rory Feek had a successful career as a country music singing duo and a happy 12-year marriage when they decided to take a year off to have a baby. For many years Joey had been afraid to have a baby, fearing she would not be a good mother.

Her pregnancy progressed normally and culminated in a planned at-home birth attended by a midwife. Sudden complications forced a trip to a hospital where both mother and baby were stabilized and in no immediate danger.

Unfortunately, the doctors and nurses told Joey and Rory that their much-anticipated child had a problem- their new baby girl had Trisomy 21, also known as Down syndrome. Down syndrome is the most commonly occurring chromosomal condition. Approximately one in every 772 babies in the United States is born with Down syndrome – about 5,100 each year.

According to the National Down Syndrome Society

People with Down syndrome attend school, work, make decisions that affect them, have meaningful relationships, vote, and contribute to society in many wonderful ways.

All people with Down syndrome experience cognitive delays, but the effect is usually mild to moderate. They each demonstrate strengths and talents despite their disability.

Quality educational programs, a stimulating home environment, good health care, and positive support from family, friends, and the community enable people with Down syndrome to lead fulfilling and productive lives.

 

Joey’s challenge-Cervical cancer

A few months after their baby Indiana’s birth, Joey faced the recurrence of cervical cancer diagnosed and treated years before. Despite more surgery, radiation, and chemotherapy the cancer persisted until further treatments were futile and and likely to cause more suffering.

Joey decided to leave their Nashville farm, her horses, chickens, and gardens, to move home to Indiana to spend her remaining time with her extended family.

 

FACED WITH THE PERSISTENCE OF THE CANCER
“JOEY DECIDED TO COME HOME-NOT TO DIE, BUT TO LIVE.”

Cervical cancer starts in the cervix, the narrow opening into the uterus from the vagina. More than 12,000 women in the United States will be diagnosed with cervical cancer each year, and more than 4,000 women die from this disease.

Cervical cancer is the second most common type of cancer for women worldwide, but because it develops over time, it is also one of the most preventable types of cancer since the widespread use of the Pap test to detect cervical abnormalities leads to early treatment.

Use this link from the American Cancer Society to learn more about cervical cancer.

Rory Feek-musician and writer

In 2014 Rory Feek started sharing their story in a blog, this life I live, and on Facebook which is where I first learned about them. The blog story turned into a book, and eventually the movie.

 

 

 

This Life I Live: One Man’s Extraordinary, Ordinary Life, and the Woman Who Changed It Forever 

“In This Life I Live, Rory Feek helps us not only to connect more fully to his and Joey’s story but also to our own journeys. He shows what can happen when we are fully open in life’s key moments, whether when meeting our life companion or tackling an unexpected tragedy.

He also gives never-before-revealed details on their life together and what he calls “the long goodbye,” the blessing of being able to know that life is going to end and taking advantage of it. Rory shows how we are all actually there already and how we can learn to live that way every day.” (Amazon review)

Rory Feek-blogger and single dad

I haven’t followed Rory closely since then, but by chance, his blog popped up on my social media feed, with some surprising and welcome news. After 8 years of living on his farm and raising his daughter Indie as a single dad, Rory has fallen in love again.

In a blog post titled, “love comes softly”, he writes

This coming week will be eight years since Joey passed away and was laid to rest in the cemetery behind our farmhouse. In some ways, it feels as if nothing’s changed since that day in 2016, but in other ways, it feels like everything has. 

Although I can honestly tell you that after losing Joey I wasn’t sure it was even possible (actually I was fairly sure it wasn’t), love has shown up in my life again. Although in a quieter and gentler way than I knew before, it has come just the same. 

 And it’s been a wonderful thing. 

Rory Feek

 

He explained he has known Rebecca for several years since she came to his rural community to teach in the small school his daughter attends. He has always liked her, but his feelings had not grown beyond that, partly because he still has strong emotions for his late wife. Or so he thought.

Fortunately, Rebecca understands that, since she also grapples with grief from losing her mother and her sister to cancer, having cared for them before they died.

And though at times through the years her faith wavered, she never lost it, and like me, has recently found a deeper surrender and love for Christ than she’s ever known before. And to be able to share that together in this journey we’re on is what’s most important of all.

Rory

Continue reading Rory’s post at love comes softly.

update

On July 18 Rory wrote a blog post titled “the wedding singer“. Not too surprising since he is in the music business. But he goes on to say

My gift for Rebecca began as a song. An idea actually. The seed of a thought that God sowed into my heart and mind in April as I sat with my guitar, and began singing.

But our wedding actually began with Indy (his daughter). It was her idea.

It had to be.

Rory Feek

Yes, Rory and Rebecca got married.  And we are all invited.

Rory has also written several children’s books. You can find them at my shop on Bookshop.org

sharing the HEART of love and faith

Although I cried throughout the video,  I’m glad I watched To Joey, With Love, and recommend it to you; it is an extraordinary love story that demonstrates the power of love and faith to get ordinary people through the worst life can throw at them. It’s still available as a DVD and on some streaming services.

I’m happy to read about Rory’s new life and love and will resume following his blog.

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