An Update on Medical Aid-in-Dying Laws

The article discusses the distinctions between euthanasia, physician-assisted suicide, and medical aid in dying (MAID). It highlights where MAID laws have passed, reflecting growing public support. I also urge advance planning for end-of-life care, whether one would consider MAID or not.

You have probably heard the terms “assisted suicide,” “medical aid in dying,” “death with dignity,” and “euthanasia,” which are often used interchangeably, but they are distinct concepts, according to Dr. Jonathon Treem, of the University of Colorado Palliative Care.

Euthanasia refers to a provider administering a lethal medication to end a patient’s suffering and life, while physician-assisted suicide is when a patient takes a prescribed lethal dose of medication to end their own suffering.

Medical aid in dying is when a terminally ill patient takes a prescribed medication to achieve death in line with their own values, regardless of their degree of suffering. (https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10184842/)

The article I am sharing here reviews the current legal status of medical aid in dying (MAID) in the United States. You may not be aware of how accessible it is in this country. I’m sharing it to inform you, not advocating for or against it.

These concepts are not synonymous with patients or family choosing a do-not-resuscitate (DNR) status or choosing to forgo any type of life-sustaining treatments. Those situations are not covered by these laws and I’m not addressing them here.

By September, Nearly a Third of Americans Will Live in States With Legal Aid in Dying (2026)

Jules Netherland traveled from her home in the Bronx to the New York State Capitol in Albany several times in the past few years, hoping to persuade the legislature to pass a medical aid-in-dying bill, allowing terminally ill patients to end their lives with a lethal prescription.

She spoke at rallies. With other members of the advocacy organization Compassion & Choices, she visited legislators’ offices. In 2024, as the state Assembly was debating the aid-in-dying bill, she helped unfurl a banner in the chamber gallery that read, “Stop the Suffering.”

Her activism was becoming difficult. Netherland, who is 59 and works for a nonprofit, was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2019. “I did a full year of aggressive treatment,” she said. “Chemotherapy. A mastectomy. Radiation treatment every weekday for five weeks. Six months of two oral medications.”

She recovered and felt well until the cancer returned a few years later. Although metastatic breast cancer is incurable, drugs are keeping her disease at bay for now. Netherland feels fortunate but also fatigued, and she contends with brain fog, gastrointestinal symptoms, and joint pain.

“My energy is really limited,” she said.

As she emailed and called legislators, Netherland feared she might die before the aid-in-dying bill — first introduced in New York in 2016 — could become law.

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‘A Breakthrough Moment’

On June 9, 2025, after the Assembly approved the bill, Netherland was in the state Senate chamber, watching the aye votes mount, and seeing it pass. Gov. Kathy Hochul signed an amended version in February; it is scheduled to take effect Aug. 5.

A similar law is slated to take effect in September in Illinois, which would become the 13th state (plus the District of Columbia) where medical aid in dying is legal. (California, Colorado, Delaware, Hawaii, Illinois, Maine, New Jersey, New Mexico, New York, Oregon, Vermont, Washington, Washington, D.C., and permitted in Montana by court ruling.)

“A breakthrough moment,” said Kevin Díaz, president of Compassion & Choices, which has spearheaded the long campaign for such laws. After almost 30 years — Oregon’s law, the first in the country, was enacted in 1997 — the addition of two populous states means that almost a third of Americans will live in one where medical aid-in-dying is legally available. “It shows that there’s broad support for this model,” Díaz said.

Polls consistently back that claim. A Pew Research Center survey last spring found that almost two-thirds of respondents didn’t consider the practice “morally wrong,” either because they thought it was acceptable or not a moral issue.

Support crossed many political and religious lines: A narrow majority of Republicans and 76% of Democrats both found “physician-assisted death” (also sometimes called “physician-assisted suicide”) permissible; so did most Catholics, Jews, and nonevangelical white Protestants.

In New York, a Siena poll found that 54% of respondents supported aid in dying, including majorities of men and women, of all age groups, and of city, suburban, and upstate residents. A plurality of Latinos supported it; Black respondents narrowly opposed it.

Passing these laws has grown somewhat easier, said Thaddeus Pope, a bioethicist and professor at Mitchell Hamline School of Law in St. Paul, Minnesota, who tracks such policies. “You can say, ‘We have 10 years in California, 18 years in Washington, and 29 years in Oregon, and nothing bad has happened.’ It becomes more accepted.”

‘You Need A, B, and C’

Yet legalizing medical aid in dying, or MAID, has been and remains a long, contentious process. Catholic leadership and many disability organizations staunchly oppose it. (Pope Leo XIV personally asked Illinois Gov. JB Pritzker not to sign the bill.)

The American Medical Association says that “physician-assisted suicide is fundamentally incompatible with the physician’s role as healer” and poses “serious societal risks.” However, a number of state medical organizations have opted to remain neutral or, as in New York, to support passage.

The Patients’ Rights Action Fund, through a sister organization, has lawsuits pending or on appeal in California, Delaware, and Colorado, arguing that aid in dying laws discriminate against people with disabilities by steering them toward physician-assisted suicide instead of treatment.

“This is a litigation strategy we’ve developed to ultimately get to the Supreme Court,” said Matt Vallière, the group’s executive director, who declined to say whether it would sue to block the Illinois and New York laws.

Even when aid-in-dying laws succeed, using them can prove challenging. In every state (except Montana, where it became legal through a court decision, so there is no statute governing eligibility), aid-in- dying is available only to people with incurable illnesses who are expected to die within six months.

It typically involves oral and written requests to two doctors, with mandated waiting periods between requests. Patients must have the mental capacity to make the decision, which disqualifies those with dementia, and they must ingest the medication without assistance. (An amendment Hochul insisted on adds a psychologist or psychiatrist to the process.)

All but two states require patients to be residents. Oregon and Vermont scrapped their residency requirements to settle lawsuits brought by Compassion & Choices. (Courts ruled against a similar suit in New Jersey.)

Moreover, any doctor, hospital, or healthcare system can legally decline to provide aid-in-dying, and religiously affiliated institutions often opt out. Those who participate can add their own requirements.

“The state can say ‘You need A, B, and C,’ and Columbia-Presbyterian can say, ‘We also want D, E, and F,’” said Pope, the Minnesota bioethicist.

Hotly Debated, Seldom Used

Perhaps these restrictions, or a lack of public awareness, help explain why, despite the headlines and fervent debates, the number of people who actually use the law is tiny in every state — usually 1% or fewer of the deaths recorded annually. The support for giving patients this kind of autonomy at the end of life remains widespread, but the desire to personally exercise it apparently is not.

Still, after studies showed that many patients seeking MAID were dying before they could complete the process, the trend has been to loosen restrictions. California cut its 15-day waiting period to 48 hours; New Mexico allows physician assistants and advanced-practice nurses to write prescriptions along with doctors.

“Most states have now amended their laws two or three times,” Pope said. “We have liberalized.” Telehealth can also facilitate access to participating doctors.

Compassion & Choices is planning legal challenges to end residency requirements in additional states, Díaz said. It is also considering how to “make inroads in jurisdictions with a much different cultural and political environment,” he added, mentioning Florida and other Southern states.

Medical aid in dying represents a shift in power, Díaz said. “The person who has to bear the burden of the suffering should have the ability to decide when it’s enough,” he added.

Anne Gurnett Bander, 72, a retired research scientist in Carmel, New York, cared for her husband for four years as ALS — the relentlessly disabling neurological disorder also known as Lou Gehrig’s disease — rendered him bedridden and dependent on feeding and breathing tubes. “By the time he died, the only thing he could do was nod his head,” she recalled.

So being diagnosed with ALS herself last year was “my worst possible nightmare,” Gurnett Bander said. She was planning to fly to Switzerland, where the nonprofit organization Dignitas provides medical aid in dying, when she learned about the New York bill and began speaking publicly in support of it, her voice faltering as her illness advanced.

Gurnett Bander and Netherland say they’re not certain they’ll use lethal drugs to end their lives as their symptoms intensify. Not infrequently, patients complete the necessary steps, secure the prescribed medication, decide they don’t need it after all, and die of their diseases. But both women insist that the choice should be theirs.

“It can offer so much peace of mind,” Netherland said. “I thought, ‘People should have this option.’ Now, they will.”

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Medical assistance in dying in Canada

Medical assistance in dying (MAID) is a process that allows someone who is found eligible to be able to receive assistance from a medical practitioner in ending their life. The federal Criminal Code of Canada permits this to take place only under very specific circumstances and rules.

Anyone requesting this service must meet specific eligibility criteria to receive medical assistance in dying. Any medical practitioner who administers an assisted death to someone must satisfy certain safeguards first. Learn more at the link.

Euthanasia and Assisted Suicide in the United Kingdom

According to the NHS, both euthanasia and assisted suicide are illegal under English law. The UK Parliament is considering a Terminally Ill Adults Bill that would “allow adults who are terminally ill, subject to safeguards and protections, to request and be provided with assistance to end their own life; and for connected purposes.”(as of May 14, 2026)

Christian Medical and Dental Association

Position Statement Abstract on Medically Assisted Suicide and Euthanasia

“Medically-assisted suicide and euthanasia (MAS & E) are morally controversial practices because they intentionally cause death and thereby contradict the Judeo-Christian and Hippocratic traditions of medical ethics which call for curing and caring, not killing. Though medically-assisted suicide has been legalized in several jurisdictions in the United States, and euthanasia has been legalized in a limited number of other countries, public and professional debates persist about the ethics of MAS & E and the harmful consequences of their legalization.

Some people may want to have access to MAS & E because of the possibility of physical or mental decline, losing control of their lives, becoming a burden to others, or experiencing severe pain or other symptoms, or the fear thereof.

In response to such concerns about suffering, healthcare professionals should provide excellent palliative care which respects life and supports the whole person. They should not endorse self-destructive notions of autonomy and mistaken notions of dignity which devalue the lives of those who suffer.

Based on a biblical account of life, death, killing, suffering, freedom, and love, Christians hold that the goodness of every human life is not diminished by suffering or disability, and that dying patients need compassionate care, not interventions that disrespect life by ending it.”

Read the Full Policy Statement

Your Review and Response

Your state may not have a medical aid-in-dying law now, but the idea should prompt us all to think about what matters at the end of life. Whether you would ever consider MAID or not, reflect on a few questions that could make your end-of-life experience more aligned with your values and less stressful for you and your family.

How do my moral, spiritual, and cultural beliefs shape the way I think about suffering, dignity, and choice at the end of life?

If I faced a terminal illness, what kinds of treatments or interventions would feel supportive — and which would feel burdensome?

What matters most to me at the end of life — comfort, independence, connection, or something else — and how do I want my care to reflect that?

Have I documented my wishes with an advanced directive or similar document? Are my next of kin aware of my wishes and willing to abide by them?

Here is a reference on the various types of

Advance Directives

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Rory Feek’s New Life and Love

After 9 years of blogging, I am reviewing old posts, sharing updates and new insights. This post reflects on a review written in 2017 about “To Joey, with Love,” a film about a married couple facing life’s challenges. It also shares Rory Feek’s personal story, including finding love again after his wife’s passing.

update June 26, 2025

I noticed recent traffic to this post so I decided to investigate. I searched “Rory Feek” online and found an”obituary”! I was surprised since I had seen nothing on the social media channels I follow. It turned out to be a prime example of “clickbait,” as no obituary existed.

I continued researching on Facebook, YouTube, and his own website, and he appears to be alive and well. There is a video of his 2025 Homestead Festival from 2 weeks ago.

I pride myself on sharing information that is true, accurate, and timely. I don’t ever want to lure someone here under false pretenses. As my tagline says

I share information and inspiration to help you turn health challenges into wellness opportunities.

updated August 31, 2024

This marks my 10th year of blogging, a milestone I never anticipated when I posted my first piece in February 2015. This year I planned to revisit older posts to share updates and new insights with you. I am finding that some of these stories are updating themselves, like this one.

This is the second update to this post, and one I wish I didn’t need to share. Things are not always as picture-perfect as they seem no matter how hard we try to make it so. Families have problems and when members of those families are public persons, they are open to the scrutiny they probably would prefer to avoid.

Rory Feek recently remarried, giving his little girl Indy a new mother, having lost her biological mom as a toddler. Her older half-sisters have made public allegations about Indy’s safety that are hard to ignore.

I don’t know who is right and who is wrong. I am sharing information here so you can read it and decide for yourself. Whatever the case, little Indy needs our love, support, and prayer.

Rory Feek’s Daughter Heidi Responds to Dad’s Blog Post

and here is Rory’s response, posted on his blog

love, dad

In 2017 I watched a movie that moved me so much that I wrote a review of it, the first one I wrote.

(note, there are affiliate links in this post)

To Joey, With Love

A Story of Life, Love, and Hope That Never Dies

90 minutes, with Spanish and English subtitles for the hearing impaired

Provident Films 2016

To Joey, With Love- A Story of LIfe, Love and Hope That Never Dies
To Joey, With Love- A Story of Life, Love, and Hope That Never Dies

The story of Joey and Rory Feek

To Joey, with Love is the intimate, authentic, and transparent story of a couple who met head-on two of life’s most difficult challenges- a special needs child and a terminal illness. Rory Feek produced the film because he believed their story needed to be remembered, documented, and shared.

Joey and Rory

Joey and Rory Feek had a successful career as a country music singing duo and a happy 12-year marriage when they decided to take a year off to have a baby. For many years Joey had been afraid to have a baby, fearing she would not be a good mother.

Her pregnancy progressed normally and culminated in a planned at-home birth attended by a midwife. Sudden complications forced a trip to a hospital where both mother and baby were stabilized and in no immediate danger.

Unfortunately, the doctors and nurses told Joey and Rory that their much-anticipated child had a problem- their new baby girl had Trisomy 21, also known as Down syndrome. Down syndrome is the most commonly occurring chromosomal condition. Approximately one in every 772 babies in the United States is born with Down syndrome – about 5,100 each year.

According to the National Down Syndrome Society

People with Down syndrome attend school, work, make decisions that affect them, have meaningful relationships, vote, and contribute to society in many wonderful ways.

All people with Down syndrome experience cognitive delays, but the effect is usually mild to moderate. They each demonstrate strengths and talents despite their disability.

Quality educational programs, a stimulating home environment, good health care, and positive support from family, friends, and the community enable people with Down syndrome to lead fulfilling and productive lives.

 

Joey’s challenge-Cervical cancer

A few months after their baby Indiana’s birth, Joey faced the recurrence of cervical cancer diagnosed and treated years before. Despite more surgery, radiation, and chemotherapy the cancer persisted until further treatments were futile and and likely to cause more suffering.

Joey decided to leave their Nashville farm, her horses, chickens, and gardens, to move home to Indiana to spend her remaining time with her extended family.

 

FACED WITH THE PERSISTENCE OF THE CANCER
“JOEY DECIDED TO COME HOME-NOT TO DIE, BUT TO LIVE.”

Cervical cancer starts in the cervix, the narrow opening into the uterus from the vagina. More than 12,000 women in the United States will be diagnosed with cervical cancer each year, and more than 4,000 women die from this disease.

Cervical cancer is the second most common type of cancer for women worldwide, but because it develops over time, it is also one of the most preventable types of cancer since the widespread use of the Pap test to detect cervical abnormalities leads to early treatment.

Use this link from the American Cancer Society to learn more about cervical cancer.

Rory Feek-musician and writer

In 2014 Rory Feek started sharing their story in a blog, this life I live, and on Facebook which is where I first learned about them. The blog story turned into a book, and eventually the movie.

 

 

 

This Life I Live: One Man’s Extraordinary, Ordinary Life, and the Woman Who Changed It Forever 

“In This Life I Live, Rory Feek helps us not only to connect more fully to his and Joey’s story but also to our own journeys. He shows what can happen when we are fully open in life’s key moments, whether when meeting our life companion or tackling an unexpected tragedy.

He also gives never-before-revealed details on their life together and what he calls “the long goodbye,” the blessing of being able to know that life is going to end and taking advantage of it. Rory shows how we are all actually there already and how we can learn to live that way every day.” (Amazon review)

Rory Feek-blogger and single dad

I haven’t followed Rory closely since then, but by chance, his blog popped up on my social media feed, with some surprising and welcome news. After 8 years of living on his farm and raising his daughter Indie as a single dad, Rory has fallen in love again.

In a blog post titled, “love comes softly”, he writes

This coming week will be eight years since Joey passed away and was laid to rest in the cemetery behind our farmhouse. In some ways, it feels as if nothing’s changed since that day in 2016, but in other ways, it feels like everything has. 

Although I can honestly tell you that after losing Joey I wasn’t sure it was even possible (actually I was fairly sure it wasn’t), love has shown up in my life again. Although in a quieter and gentler way than I knew before, it has come just the same. 

 And it’s been a wonderful thing. 

Rory Feek

 

He explained he has known Rebecca for several years since she came to his rural community to teach in the small school his daughter attends. He has always liked her, but his feelings had not grown beyond that, partly because he still has strong emotions for his late wife. Or so he thought.

Fortunately, Rebecca understands that, since she also grapples with grief from losing her mother and her sister to cancer, having cared for them before they died.

And though at times through the years her faith wavered, she never lost it, and like me, has recently found a deeper surrender and love for Christ than she’s ever known before. And to be able to share that together in this journey we’re on is what’s most important of all.

Rory

Continue reading Rory’s post at love comes softly.

update

On July 18 Rory wrote a blog post titled “the wedding singer“. Not too surprising since he is in the music business. But he goes on to say

My gift for Rebecca began as a song. An idea actually. The seed of a thought that God sowed into my heart and mind in April as I sat with my guitar, and began singing.

But our wedding actually began with Indy (his daughter). It was her idea.

It had to be.

Rory Feek

Yes, Rory and Rebecca got married.  And we are all invited.

Rory has also written several children’s books. You can find them at my shop on Bookshop.org

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Although I cried throughout the video,  I’m glad I watched To Joey, With Love, and recommend it to you; it is an extraordinary love story that demonstrates the power of love and faith to get ordinary people through the worst life can throw at them. It’s still available as a DVD and on some streaming services.

I’m happy to read about Rory’s new life and love and will resume following his blog.

I’d love for you to follow this blog and follow me on social media.

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