Written especially for Baby Boomers-those of us born between 1946 and 1964- Courage for the Unknown Season offers sound advice and encouragement to anyone who wants to be prepared for aging. For those younger, it will help you understand and deal with the challenges your parents and grandparents are encountering now;
Even though Jan Silvious titled her book, Courage for the Unknown Season, we know what that season is-the season of aging and its inevitable, relentless progression toward death.
We’ve seen it, some of us are already in it, and it can be a scary place, with many unknowns other than the end. Jan refuses to let aging intimidate her, and wrote this book to help others take on our fear of aging, loss, illness, disability, and death with confidence and hope.
She starts the book with a chapter titled “Resilience”, followed soon by “Fight Fear”. She advises us “Don’t Forget to Laugh”, and to “Clean Up after Yourself”- that is, deal with our personal possessions so our family doesn’t have to when we are gone.
I ‘m glad she offers practical tips on staying healthy that she learned from a physician friend. In the chapter “Head Toward Ninety” she lists several steps to maintain wellness-
exercise
adequate sleep
health promoting food
pursue a healthy mind and spirit
“READ, STAY CURIOUS, FORGIVE, DROP THE BITTERNESS, AND PURSUE PEACE.”
She points us to Psalm 92 from the Bible, and suggests meditating on it to gain a “wealth of spiritual health.”
“It is good to give thanks to the Lord And to sing praises to Your name, O Most High; To declare Your lovingkindness in the morning And Your faithfulness by night,
For You, O Lord, have made me glad by what You have done, I will sing for joy at the works of Your hands.”
Later, she takes us by the hand, without mincing words about the pain we will experience with loss, and walks us through steps to navigate “Grief and Hope”.
Jan uses examples from her life, her family, friends, and colleagues of using our later years to cherish old memories while continuing to make new ones. She doesn’t try to convince us that aging isn’t painful, but encourages us to find new ways to find joy and fulfillment when the old ways are no longer possible.
Why you should read this book
Written especially for Baby Boomers-those of us born between 1946 and 1964- Courage for the Unknown Seasonoffers sound advice and encouragement to anyone who wants to be prepared for aging. For those younger, it will help you understand and deal with the challenges your parents and grandparents are encountering now; but stow away a copy for 10, 20, 30 or more years when you will appreciate its wisdom for your own life.
I enjoyed reading it since I have or am experiencing much of what she discusses, and her perspective validates my own. For those things I have yet to encounter, I appreciate her suggestions and warnings.
“NO MATTER WHAT SEASON YOU ARE IN, THERE ARE TRUTHS THAT CAN HELP YOU APPROACH THE UNKNOWN WITH CONFIDENCE AND HOPE.
TRUST THAT GOD IS THE GOD OF OUR SEASON, NO MATTER WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE, NO MATTER HOW UNKNOWN.”
Jan Silvious is a long-time speaker, professional life coach, wife, mother, and grandmother. She is author of eleven books, including Big Girls Don’t Whine and Fool-Proofing Your Life. Jan and her husband, Charlie, live in Tennessee, and have three grown sons, two daughters-in-love, five charming grandchildren and a very bright rescued pit-bull, Rocky-Buddy.
Jan Silvious, author
Disclosure: I read an advance review copy of this book which I received complimentary from Tyndale via NetGalley in return for writing a review.
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The symptoms of IBS may fluctuate and even go into remission spontaneously, so it can be difficult to definitely know what works and what doesn’t. Management can be divided into two categories.
Even though IBS, irritable bowel syndrome, is a common gastrointestinal disorder, medical science still cannot fully explain its origin or understand the best way to treat it. But physicians can do much more to help patients with this condition than previously thought.
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The cause of IBS is still uncertain but gastrointestinal specialists cite several issues that likely contribute.
This information is current as of the date of original publication or update but may have changed by the time you read this. Do not use this information for diagnosis or treatment purposes. Before making health decisions, discuss with a qualified healthcare professional.
What is IBS?
Recurrent abdominal pain or discomfort averaging 1 day per week for 3 months associated with
altered bowel movements
change in frequency of stool
change in form or appearance of stool
not explained by other conditions that are known to cause similar symptoms
IBS patients may have any combination of pain, diarrhea, and constipation, which can alternate or go in remission at times. Other common symptoms include
passage of mucus
increased gas
bloating and/or fullness
Physicians do not expect IBS to cause bleeding, fever, weight loss, nausea, or vomiting; such symptoms prompt investigation of other conditions, including
The symptoms of IBS are not unique , making diagnosis difficult since it can be confused with other conditions. Women are diagnosed with IBS more often than men, and onset of symptoms after age 50 years is unusual (although it may have been present and unrecognized. ) Children
Currently there is no one generally recognized blood test, scan, image, or other diagnostic test that confirms IBS.
Why does IBS happen?
The cause of IBS is still uncertain but gastrointestinal specialists cite several issues that likely contribute.
At one time doctors believed it was due to overactive muscles in the bowel wall, altered motility, leading to the once used name “spastic colon.” Now there are several additional factors that seem to contribute.
One pathway involves the neurotransmitters in the nerves of the bowel that transmit signals from there to the brain and back. A deficiency of these neurotransmitters may be interpreted as pain or may alter gut motility causing diarrhea or constipation.
Changes in the number and type of “gut microflora”, the bacteria that live in the bowel ,has been identified as a possible cause.
Some people develop IBS after having viral gastroenteritis (infection). The infection may trigger an intense immune response leading to chronic inflammation as the cause of the persistent symptoms.
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Managing IBS
The symptoms of IBS may fluctuate and even go into remission spontaneously, so it can be difficult to definitely know what works and what doesn’t.
Non-drug treatment options
Regular exercise, such as a daily walk, and conditioning with moderate to vigorous exercise 3-5 times a week improves digestion and encourages the bowel to move more efficiently.
Adequate and restful sleep helps manage stress that frequently precipitates symptoms.
Experts recommend changes of food choices and eating habits as basic steps to symptom control.
They emphasize eating meals at regular intervals, limited snacking, and not overeating at any time.
No one food or food group is universally off limits, but some IBS patients do well by avoiding
alcohol, caffeinated and/or carbonated beverages, and milk
spicy and fatty foods
gas-producing foods
gluten
artificial sweeteners
insoluble fiber
Some studies show a low FODMAP diet is especially helpful for bloating whether diarrhea or constipation is the major problem. FODMAP stands for fermentable oligosaccharides, disaccharides, monosaccharides, and polyols short-chain carbohydrates (sugars) that aren’t absorbed properly in the gut.
FODMAPs are found in various fruits, vegetables, cereals, breads, dairy, and sweeteners so it can be challenging to know what’s acceptable and what’s not. Using a list such as this one or working with a knowledgeable dietician can make it easier to find what works for you.
Because of the nervous system involvement, one’s thoughts and emotions can both improve and exacerbate symptoms of IBS. Adequately managing stress plays a key role in managing IBS symptoms. Psychological therapies are often recommended- CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy), hypnotherapy, and psychotherapy.
Drug therapy for IBS
Non -prescription drugs used for IBS include
soluble fiber supplements such as psyllium and laxatives for those with constipation
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Prescription meds available in the United States specifically for IBS include linaclotide, lubiprostone, eluxadoline , rifaximin, plenecatide,and tegaserod.
An interesting investigational treatment involves fecal transplantation (or bacteriotherapy) , the transfer of stool from a healthy donor into the gastrointestinal tract . Small studies have shown it effective for IBS but the effect may not be long lasting. Fecal transplantation is currently not routinely performed for reasons other than recurrent C. difficile colitis. More research studies are still needed to determine if fecal transplantation should be performed for other clinical indications. Fecal transplantation for other clinical indications should be considered experimental, and performed only as part of a research study where your safety is closely monitored.
What to do if you think you may have IBS
Monitor your symptoms carefully, keeping a written record, for 1-2 months. Take this to your doctor for an evaluation. However if you have these symptoms, see your doctor immediately.
bleeding in bowel movements
unexpected weight loss
fever
profuse diarrhea
persistent failure to pass stool
severe, disabling pain
A primary care doctor-a family medicine or internal medicine doctor- can evaluate these symptoms initially, and decide if referral to a GI specialist, a gastroenterologist , is needed for more specialized testing.
Your doctor likely has already recommended some of the measure I have listed above. If not, and your symptoms are not controlled, then you might want to discuss to see if they are appropriate for you.
Remember, this is provided for your information and is not intended as advice or treatment. I encourage you to seek care from your personal physician.
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